Joy in the Journey

Menu Plan Monday!

2012-01-31T16:59:00.000-05:00

I originally wanted to post this yesterday.

Here is my plan for the week:

My busy Monday means I need something fast and easy. Shawn made a meat sauce last night so I'll use that again tonight.

Monday: Pasta with meat sauce and salad

Tuesday: Loaded baked potatoes, fresh-baked bread, and orange slices.

Wednesday: Tilapia fillets, mixed vegetables, a rice dish, and sliced pears.

Thursday: Grilled salmon, salad, and broccoli.

Friday: Chicken cutlets with a honey mustard sauce, baked potatoes, and sliced carrots.

Saturday: My hubby is an excellent cook. We'll either make something together or he'll surprise me. Either way, it's a win-win.

Our family has the habit of having dessert every night. I think it's time I find some healthy alternatives since I am moving to a healthier lifestyle. If you have any ideas, please post them. :-)

What's on your menu for the week??

Happy Monday!

2012-01-30T11:04:00.000-05:00

This morning I started my day with the Lord first thing. I love my iPhone and the ability to have God's Word at my fingertips. I have His Word in the Bible my husband gave me also, but I am enjoying the "Bible in a Year" plan that I am reading through the Holy Bibly App. I also read the daily devotional that Joyce Meyer has on it.

I called my friend, Barb, a little while ago. Her husband, Skip, died one year ago today. She sounded very sad, but strong. She has told me in the past that she cries everyday for him. They had a beautiful marriage and I can understand her tears. I can only imagine if she didn't know the Lord, how much more difficult this journey of mourning would be.

I read a couple of blogs this morning and came across, Pearls and Grace. I love getting to know other Christian women through blog world. God can even use blogging to grow us in our faith.

Have a blessed day. It's time for me to get some work done around here.

Double Digits

2012-01-17T08:55:00.000-05:00

Aren't birthdays fun!?

These fellas of mine, the twins, Grant & Cooper, my babies... they LOVE it when their birthday is fast approaching. The Christmas lights are up, cookies galore are being baked, shared, and eaten, the Amazon packages are coming in left and right, I'm trying to keep track of birthday versus Christmas gifts, cookie exchanges are taking place, ugly Christmas sweaters are being worn, and I'm about worn out!

Not these boys! The party is just getting started for them. You would think that a birthday on Christmas Eve would be a bummer, that you might feel slighted because Jesus' birthday is the next day and He is the One that this time of year, Christmas, is all about. Well it is, but Grant and Cooper are overjoyed and feel special to have been born on December 24th.

My little guys turned 10 this time around! Yes, double digits abound around here. And just to remind myself of this scary thought, in a mere 3 years, there will be teenagers everywhere! 5 of them. Gulp!

Braaten adores her little brothers. She has given them fun, and sometimes crazy, nicknames. They even have different aliases- aka Max and Joey.

Our children are a gift and having 2 at the same time is unbelievably special.

When I was told I was having twins, because we were all clueless for the first 20 weeks, I was beside myself with disbelief, fear, giddiness, and joy. My poor hubby was home sick during the ultrasound so he received the news a tad later than me. The man's sickness just about disappeared in an instant when I told him. Twin news will do that to you.

Leading up to their birthday, Shawn baked cookies and helped them decorate them. It's one of our traditions. We bake loads of cookies and share them with friends and neighbors.

These were Christmas presents from their sisters. See? That's what happens. Birthday and Christmas photos get mixed up and while this is a birthday post, Christmas will inevitably be in the mix. I'll tell you this much, though. This mama will NEVER wrap their birthday presents in Christmas wrap. People have shared with me how important it is to keep the two separate. I respect that and abide by it.

Happy 10th birthday, Grant and Cooper. When God brought you into this world, he added two little gentlemen to the Busse mix. You bless us each and every day. I love you!!

The Streets of Philadelphia

2012-01-05T12:29:00.000-05:00

Running has a way of giving me ample opportunity to pray, and think... and remember.

It was during one specific run last weekend that my brother came to mind. It was as my iPod played the song, "Philadelphia", by Bruce Springsteen. I know that choosing that song to be on one of my playlists was intentional so that I would remember him. It has a great melody, too.

You see, my brother died at the age of 32 of AIDS. I remember watching the movie of the same title with Tom Hanks playing the main character. It was eery watching it because at the very same time, Bobby was very ill. He had been sick for many years. I remember crying my eyes out because the circumstances, illness, pain, and sadness were so close to that of Bobby's experience. He was so young with so much more to do, but God had a plan for his life. Our days are numbered and July 1, 1995 was his day to go and be with the Lord.

What a wonderful day it was when my cousin Connie prayed with Bobby to have a saving relationship with Christ about a month before he died. Knowing that is what gives me peace about his death.

I miss his handsome face, his beautiful blue eyes, his resemblance to both my mom and dad. I miss the way he laughed and danced. Oh, I miss my big brother.

I thought I would have a post about the New Year... 2012, but when a memory comes to me that clearly and that strongly, I have to write about it. So as I reflect on 2011, and look forward to all that God has for me, my husband, and my family in 2012, I remember those that have gone before me.

I remember my brother who is dear to me.

2011-12-16T08:41:00.006-05:00

Faith over at Walk with Me by Faith is hosting her Christmas Card Carousel as she has for the past several years. I love joining it albeit a couple of days late. Thank you for hosting, Faith.

Go over and check it out. You'll see some beautiful Christmas cards.

We wish you a Merry & Blessed CHRISTmas.

2011-12-14T10:44:00.000-05:00

1. Do you put Christmas decorations in every room of your house? If not every room, what rooms do you decorate?

I try to put decorations in just about every room, but the main ones are the kitchen, living room, and entry way.

I guess it depends on how much energy I have.

2. If you could visit one of the Nordic countries (Denmark, Finland, Iceland, Norway, and Sweden) which one would you choose and why?

I would visit Norway because my maternal grandfather was from there. Our first daughter, Braaten, was given his last name, my mom's maiden name, because I always loved it. It has been told by my very best friend, Annette, that in the 7th grade I said that if I ever had a daughter I was going to name her Braaten.

She is Braaten Noelle, born 2 weeks after Christmas, and will be turning 14 very soon.

3. What does the word faith mean to you?

Faith for me means believing in the One that I cannot see. It means trusting in Christ with my whole heart, knowing that He came to save the lost. I once was lost, but now I'm found and what a blessing that He chose me even before I was knitted in my mother's womb.

4. You can go back to your childhood for one day...what day and age would you choose?

When I was about 10 years old, in 1976, the Bicentennial year, I entered the standing broad jump competition during a meet. I had never done anything on the track before and my gym teacher at the time encouraged me. It was a huge event because of the timing in our history, a place where families gathered, and schools in the area came together. What was I thinking? I was a bit of a tomboy, but like I said, I had never done anything like this in the past.

It was my turn. I stood there bent at the knees, swinging my arms to and fro, to get as much distance as I possibly could. I leapt into the air for what felt like an eternity. I landed at 5 feet 8 inches. There were paparazzi everywhere taking pictures. OK, it was just an area journalist. I have been reading too many books about the Baxters and Flanigans by Karen Kingsbury. Anyone else reading this series??

I placed first, made it in the Jersey Journal, and both my parents were there. My dad didn't make it to many events. He worked a lot. What a grand day! Annette made fun of me for years, still does 'til this day because I brought my trophy in and walked around to different classrooms to show off that large trophy. My teacher encouraged that, too, so I went for it. Ah, what a day in the life of me. :-)

5. When did you last have 'punch'? If it's not too much trouble share your favorite punch recipe.

I think I had punch at a shower about 8 months ago or so. I enjoy it, but have never really acquired a go-to recipe.

6. Do you fill stockings at your house? Are stockings opened before or after the bigger gifts?

We do fill stockings. The kids love them and look forward to seeing what awaits them after opening everything else.

Shawn and I quite like them ourselves. I enjoy getting Cella's chocolate covered cherries each year.

7. What takes your breath away?

Do I have to list just one thing?

Seeing my children for the first time after being away from them for a day, or two, or a long weekend.

I love watching them perform at recitals, sports, etc.

And because I can't list just one thing, I love seeing my husband's blue eyes in photos. Each day, we put a new photo up on our Mac as wallpaper and whenever there's one of Shawn up, I am always drawn to his eyes. I will just sit here and stare and then whisper, as though he can hear me, "I love you."

8. Insert your own random thought here.

It's a soggy day out there, 50 degrees, and absolutely no sign of snow. I have twin boys that were born on Christmas Eve that are about to turn 10. They are having their birthday party this Sunday with 10 friends and they are reflecting on how much fun they had last year sledding in our backyard. It doesn't seem likely that we'll have any snow for them, but I sure would like to see a white Christmas.

Cookie Craziness!

2011-12-12T11:54:00.000-05:00

In the past couple of weeks I have been to 2 cookie exchanges-

one at my church (Victory Life in Battle Creek), and

one at my friend, Jamie's, home.

She and Sarah know how to pull off a fun shindig and the ladies of VLC do all things with excellence.

Between my daughter, Braaten, and I, we have baked at least 19 dozen cookies,

and have taken home as many. Oh my.

We enjoyed exchanges that were full of fun and fellowship,

and sampled too many cookies for our waistlines.

We had the nerve to wear ugly Christmas sweaters,

and received an "ugly" ornament which inspired this lovely look on my face.

Ellie, Braaten, and Renae donned these Goodwill finds.

You sure are growing up, Braaten, when you can join me in ladies' affairs.

I love you, Honey, and I'm proud of you for wearing that scalloped-edged, screen-printed, turquoise-ish sweatshirt. You rocked it!

Run, Girl, Run!!

2011-11-17T12:46:00.001-05:00

I ran my first 10K this past Saturday. Yes, my first. I think stating it that way means there will be more runs to come.

I have been bitten by the running bug.

Shawn, my friend, Pam, her husband, Pastor Matt, and Sydney all ran together.

Well, we each ran at our own pace, but we did this thing together. I loved every minute of it, um, except for those hills.

There.were.hills.and.lots.of.them.

That part I didn't exactly love.

It was hard running 6.2 miles, but it was exhilarating all at the same time.

There is a certain camaraderie between runners and I love it.

I missed the very memo that I wrote about making a silly face for this photo. Actually, I think my timing was off.

You see that headband I'm wearing?

I love running.

I hate running.

I love running.

I hate running.

Those words are so true.

I won it a long time ago, when I hadn't even started training yet, on Jennifer's blog called The Magic Brush. She is a sweet lady with a whole lot of talent! She has done a triathlon not long ago and is an inspiration to me in many ways. Go check out her blog. She is in the middle of trying to adopt and has written her story there.

My time- 1:04:44, Shawn's: 52:13, Pam had her best time yet at right around 1:06, Pastor Matt came in 2nd place for his age group at about 47 minutes and even beat out the age group below that. Sydney had some struggles, but finished the race and we are all extremely proud of her. (Pam, I hope you don't mind me sharing times. :)

Weekend Getaway (Part 3)

2011-11-13T11:10:00.000-05:00

The last part of our trip was to the Grand Hotel. We arrived on Sunday afternoon to this very stately hotel.

I mentioned that there are no cars on the island. You either take this fancy horse and carriage, which we did not, you walk, or you ride bikes to get around. We walked because our time was mostly spent at the hotel itself.

The Grand Hotel was made famous in the movie,

"Somewhere in Time" starring Christopher Reeves.

Our room was lovely and comfortable. A fancy chocolate was placed on our pillows at night. The hotel has lots of this particular green and varying pinks in its decor. It's absolutely beautiful.

The attraction that brought us to the Grand Hotel on this particular weekend was a marriage retreat by Jay and Laura Laffoon.

The hotel requires evening wear after 6. It was fun to dress up.

The food was absolutely delicious!! Because we were there for the retreat, 3 of our meals were included. It was well worth it!

The sunset from the lovely, never ending porch with stately columns and a beautiful display of American flags along the length of it was a sight to behold.

On our way back to Mackinaw City, there were a couple of lighthouses.

Seeing Old Glory reminds me during this Veteran's weekend that I am proud to be an American and ever thankful for those who have served and are currently serving for my freedom.

Thank you for traveling up north in Michigan with me over the past few days. If you ever get a chance to stay at the Grand Hotel, visit the shops of Machinaw City, or go to Traverse City, do it! You will not regret it.

Have a blessed Sunday.

We interrupt this program...

2011-11-11T14:03:00.000-05:00

to tell you about something we've been up to. I'll post day 3 of our weekend getaway today or tomorrow.

About 5 or 6 months ago, I decided to get on this particular bandwagon. It seemed everyone was doing it and it had been piquing my interest for years. It never quite interested me enough to actually go out and do it, however. It's hard and takes commitment, dedication, and consistency if you want to make strides. Literally.

My pastor and his son started about 13 months ago and have done superbly. They have inspired many. Pastor Matt and his wife, Pam, decided to give it a go and they have enjoyed it and have been as committed as anyone.

It was an intimidating thing for me... something I didn't think I would be very good at. Like I said, it requires hard work. I'm not immune to working hard or anything, I just wanted to succeed and I didn't want to quit.

I began to research it so that I would be as equipped as I possible could be and then I did it!

I started to follow a program called C25K and began to run.

Before long, I talked my husband into joining me so that I would have his company during my runs. And though one of his knees was giving him problems initially, those issues seem to have subsided.

One day last July my cousins from Indiana were all together for a family gathering and asked us if we would do a 4 mile run in September with them. You have to understand that I could barely run a city block without being completely out of breath and now I was considering running 4 miles straight. The really cool thing was that my cousin George and his wife, Cherie, were flying in from Texas to do the Fort4Fitness run, also. Hey if they can fly from TX, we can drive down from Michigan and do this thing!

And that's exactly what we did. Shawn and I ran our first race together and did it in just under 44 minutes. He stayed right by my side the entire time even though he was fully capable of leaving me in his dust.

With that accomplishment behind us, Pam asked me if we would be interested in running a 10K in November with her and Matt. Originally we were just going to do the 5K on that day. We talked it over and said yes.

Our race day is tomorrow. I will officially run 6.2 miles and I'm blown away that I can even do that. My prayer during my runs always contains Phillipians 4:13.

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

It is by God's grace that I can do any of it.

Our Dreamy Weekend (part deux)

2011-11-10T17:29:00.001-05:00

Dinner must wait!

I am choosing to write a post instead of shaping hamburger patties and putting them on our griddle made for large families. I love that griddle! It cooks 8 pancakes at a time, 8 burgers, 2 pounds of bacon. Not all together you understand. Well, you get the idea.

By golly I said that I would write another post in less than two months and so I am choosing just over 24 hours. How's that for keeping my word??

I love to write and share my little world with you. It brings joy to my heart.

Ok, back to our weekend...

I ended my last post with this picture of Shawn. It bears reposting.

How cool is that moon?

After we unsuccessfully reached the water to get photos of the sunset, we jumped back in our truck and drove closer to Lake Michigan.

It was so pretty.

It is extremely enjoyable to run down the dunes and feel the cool sand between your toes.

Today I'm looking at snow outside my window. How did that happen so fast?

After staying at the cottage for a couple of days, our next stop was Mackinaw Island. But before we got on the ferry to get to the island, we just had to cross the Mackinaw Bridge to say we've been to the Upper Peninsula. I know. We are silly!

Arnold Transit is the company we used to get over to the island.

Automobiles are not allowed on the island which means you walk or take a horse and carriage.

It is such a quaint place to visit. I wish we had a little more time there.
And if you'll stay with me on this series of posts, I'll have the best part of the trip here tomorrow. I don't want to wear you out with too many photos. If I'm being honest, those hamburgers are calling my name. Yum!

A Picture Perfect Weekend to Remember

2011-11-09T13:19:00.001-05:00

It was a beautiful fall weekend and no better time for my honey and I to get away for a few days. It had been a very long while since it was just he and I. The timing could not be more perfect because things at work for Shawn started to heat up and get really stressful. So stressful, in fact, that he was almost called away from our respite to deal with those matters. Though I was extremely disappointed, I started to make plans to have "me" time while he helped put out some fires. His plan was to return the next day and movies and walks were on my agenda. I was thrilled, however, when he was able to stay. I would much rather share movies and walks with my Beloved.

We were privy to some of the most beautiful colors and scenery.

Shawn was enjoying playing with our camera to get this beautiful shot.

Our friends, Jeff and Jen, let us borrow their cabin in Traverse City on High Lake.

We would come out back to look at the view of the lake.

In the midst of relaxing, Shawn would receive an unwanted text here and there. He did his best to tune them out, but realistically had to deal with them.

We enjoyed hot breakfasts for two each morning.

And danish from the Continental Bakery.

Shawn is known for his gentle spirit and happy heart. It's easily seen in this picture.

We drove to Traverse City to shop downtown and have a leisurely stroll. The weather was unbelievable that weekend with temps in the high 70's. I bought some goodies from Cherry Republic. They have the best chocolate covered cherries, cherry salsas, wines, and other delicious treats. My friend, Ginger, introduced me to that company last Christmas.

We went to Traverse Bay for a little bit.

We enjoy getting reflective shots on the water.

The same day that we went to Traverse City, we drove to Sleeping Bear Dunes. It's a place where you can climb and climb forever. It's great exercise and unfortunately we never made it to the water because the dunes just kept on going. It was near dark, too.

The kiss

What a pretty farm view from on top of the dunes.

We had a great time, but there is more for me to share.

Stay tuned until next time and I promise it will not be in two months.

Thanks for stoppying by.

Open Mic Night & Biggy Boo!

2011-09-26T08:59:00.000-04:00

Monday is seemingly my busiest day and yet I am finding the time to post before I run, run, run!

A couple of weeks ago, our church's youth group called Impact, had an Open Mic night where students could sing, dance, show a video they made, display their photography, or do just about anything. Our girls started painting these cute cartoon characters on canvases after their friend Renae introduced it to them. In this photo Melanie was talking about the ones she created.

Braaten Noelle was showing all of us the pretty ones she made. What a great experience for her to get up there and share them with us. Great job, girls!

Melanie also decided to play a piano piece that she has been working on for her upcoming recital. She played, Blessed Be Your Name, absolutely beautifully.

I stood there in awe of her talent and her bravery to just get up there and do it. Wow!

And on a very separate note, here is one of our kitty cats named Biggie Boo. OK, so it's a funny name, but he has several versions because when all of the kittens were born this spring & summer, my kiddos gave them names. He has been called Big Boy mainly, but I wanted to call him Bob or Bobby. Melanie started saying Biggie Boo and it is beginning to stick.

He is way cuter than he looks in this photo and he is really active. He was most likely trying to get down out of my grip.

Mellie loves all of the kittens & cats we have. There's Lilly and Ying, the 2 adult cats that each had a litter of kittens. And the ones we have kept are Daisy Loo, Ying's offspring, and Biggie Boo, Lillie's offspring. We also have Beans who hasn't been given away yet. She might be a keeper as well.

Happy Monday!

coming and going

2011-09-12T07:51:00.000-04:00

Mondays around here are going to start to look like this...

*Head out by 9 for Braaten and Melanie to take horse-riding lessons from 10 - 11:30 a.m. They took lessons in England for the 2 years that we were there which makes them 2 very happy girls.

*Leave Augusta and head back to our house unless I have errands to run in between. Both girls have a 1/2 hour piano lesson in Marshall starting at 1:30.

*Pick up the high school children (Austin, my 15 year old, and 2 friends, Sarah and Ben) at 2:30.

*Get home by 3 and see any scheduled patients, then make dinner.

*Leave at 5:30 for Melanie's dance class from 6 - 7 pm

*Head to AWANA (starting on October 3rd) to drop the twins off after dropping Mel off at dance.

*Melanie has to be picked up at 7 and the twins at 8.

Yikes! Mondays will be a challenge unless I have a plan.

Nine Eleven

2011-09-11T13:56:00.000-04:00

10 years ago today I was in the thick of taking care of our 3 small children and pregnant with the twins. My friend Robyn called and frantically told me to turn on the t.v. The first tower had been hit and I watched in stunned silence. I couldn't take my eyes away from it. I can't imagine the pain of the loved ones left behind. I get a lump in my throat when I reflect on everything. We lived about 50 miles away from NYC at the time. That skyline was always breathtaking to see as we would drive on Route 3 heading to see my family in Hoboken. And after a couple of weeks had passed and we took that familiar drive again, I couldn't believe what my eyes were seeing. A big, empty space where life and work took place, where businesses succeeded and people thrived. Today I remember all of those left behind and the thousands of firemen, police officers, service men and women, doctors, nurses, and volunteers of every kind that came together to make some sense of this and to move our country forward. And most of all I honor God who knows and sees our pain and is with us in ALL of it.

floating down the colorado river

2011-09-08T09:23:00.003-04:00

Pam over at "You're Gonna Miss This" is officially my hero of the day!! She helped me to figure out how to put my photos onto Picasa. I'm still working on that, but in the meantime I was able to see Phil's photos that he sent us on a zip drive. That makes Phil my 2nd hero of the day. These are his photos!! My 3rd hero, since it bears mentioning is Picasa! I can finally blog about our amazing and blessed vacation.

On this particularly hot day (about 103 degrees down in Bryce canyon), we set out to float down the Colorado River. The entire venture would span 4 hours and my day started out really rocky. No pun intended.

In the middle of the night I realized something didn't feel right concerning my bladder and I didn't think I'd be able to enjoy this day together with everyone.

I had to visit an Urgent Care facility and they would be the hero of that particular day for me. What's with all of these heroes I speak of anyway? My true hero, the Creator of Heaven and Earth, is the hero of them all everyday, all day, but He supplies me with earthly heroes and I guess that is a sub theme of this post, the primary theme being our joyous travels with Phil, Jane, Amy, and Megan.

We were told to drink plenty of water as we floated, and the heat of the day begged for water poured over the heads of those that requested it.

Brace yourselves, girls!

How absolutely gorgeous!!

You are, too, Aus. You are growing up into a very handsome, sweet, and dreamy gentleman.

When I shared with Jane that I didn't think I could join them on the float, she reminded me of the regret I would feel if I didn't. She secretly planned on sacrificing her own trip if I insisted that I could not do it. Jane, I know you'll read this. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being a true friend that will stand by my side no matter what. I have a handful, or maybe two because I'm blessed, of that kind of friend, and I can't say thank you enough. I love you!

Do you see the scale of those rocks? The color, the beauty, the majesty? Thank you, Lord, for all you have created.

Phil, what amazing photos you've taken. Look at the skies against the red rock.

Our guide stopped so that we can swim in the ice cold water. It was so refreshing! Cooper and Braaten were having fun.

If you asked Shawn what one of his favorite parts of this vacation was, and there were many, he would say it was swimming in the Colorado River. It was the ultimate experience for him.

I happened to mention to Jane that if Sarah were standing near me, she'd have me in the water in a heartbeat, or at least she would try. By golly, if I hadn't turned my back, I might have seen her coming! The temptation was too great and Phil was having a field day behind his lens.

She did not get me fully immersed, but she came pretty close. Me and my big mouth.

Seeing this photo of the pure joy on Shawn's face reminds me of how he loved it.

I love you, Babe. You are always my hero.

Jane after her victory!

See what I would have missed if I didn't go on this trip.

Mr. Photographer took a dip, too. Shawn was in charge of his camera at that point.

One final dip before getting back on the float.

I want to go back there. Looking outside right now- it's chilly, rainy, the pool is still open, and it feels like Autumn. Missing the heat and beauty of Utah.

Austin and Cooper were enjoying the cold lemonade that our guide provided. He had them in a canvas bag on a rope in the water for us.

Jane, Carol, Grant, and Shawn.

Phil and Jane

Melanie and Megan became friends with Jordan (sitting in the middle).

Austin, Cooper, Amy and Braaten.

Jane and Phil told us that their trip to America was the trip of a lifetime. Our trip out west was exactly the same for us. It was wonderful!

Let's Catch Up!

2011-09-04T22:00:00.000-04:00

If you are reading this, I'm so glad you stopped by.

I haven't blogged in awhile because I've been waiting to upload all the photos we took from our adventures out West. My friend, Kat, from Chili Pepper mentioned how she hasn't "seen" me around which prompted this writing. It's been bugging me that I haven't taken or found the time to write a post for over a month. The problem is that my new camera was set on "raw" which is the way all of our photos were taken. I didn't realize it and our Mac wasn't able to read any of the photos. Still I wait to be able to access the pictures so I can journal about all of the wonderful places we were able to see during our vacation. Our friends, Matt & Pam, came over to work on the computer and helped to figure out what the issue was. Thanks so much MattPam.

Moving on... :-)

Didn't summer just fly by? It is my absolute favorite season and I hate to see it go. We had so many fun times at our pool with friends and family. Every week I have a day I like to call "Pool Dayz" where our friends come over for several hours to hang out and swim. We did that every Tuesday and the weather was always just about perfect. I love how that happens. We had our last one just about a week ago.

It seems as though ever since I moved back to Michigan from England that I am not a very good blogger. It's frustrating. It makes me think that I must not have had many friends or that I had a whole lot of time on my hands to be able to blog almost daily. These days I just don't ha ve the time. I'm hoping that once we establish our new routines and schedule that I can take the time to do it again. Homeschooling 4 children and running my practice may not make that easy, but I am sure going to try.

Here's an update on the kids...

Austin is going into the 10th grade at Marshall High School. He has really enjoyed his summer vacation and is not exactly excited about heading back. The kid has the life! He does work hard once he is back in school, but he has relished in taking it easy. He just started mowing the lawn for our friends and has done ours all summer. He has his fair share of chores around here, too, like changing the water for the chickens and helping to take care of our home. He started driver training this summer and is doing really well so far. He plans on trying out for basketball in November to play for the Redhawks once again. Go Austin!

Braaten is going into the 8th grade here at home. She is growing into such a lovely young lady. She is taller than me by at least a half inch and is only 13! I am going to be the shortest one in this place before too long. My hubby is 6'2'' and they all take after him. Ha! Bray started back at volleyball in early August and she had her first game last week. She played for the first time last year, got a lot of experience, and is now starting for the Battle Creek Homeschool Hawks. She took the summer off taking piano lessons and will start back up this week. She has been hard at work with various babysitting jobs and is saving her money to be able to pay for a plane ticket to visit her friends in England. I admire her dedication and commitment to seeing her plan come to fruition in the next year or two.

Melanie is going into the 6th grade. She is excited about the new curriculum we are starting. It meant getting her very own laptop which has generated much excitement. Our first day of school is this Tuesday and we'll see how we like "Switched on Schoolhouse". We've done Abeka for years and needed to change it up a bit. In addition to that, the kids will be working on creative writing, spellling, and cursive writing. One of my favoite things to do is to grab a great book, snuggle on the couch with all the kids, and read together. Last year we didn't to that nearly enough. Back to Mel... she is also playing volleyball for the Hawks and has improved greatly. Last year it was difficult when serving to get the ball over the net. This year, not a problem! Go Mel!! Piano lessons will be starting back up for her and then a recital is right around the corner.

Grant is my silly, funny 9 year old and a twin to Cooper. He helps in taking care of the chickens and kittens. The twins take turns week to week on who does what. Our hens must be getting old; they're not producing as many eggs. We did hatch chicks this summer and so production should begin in a couple of months. More eggs are good. Oh, we have 3 Polish chickens. They are the funniest looking chickens you've ever seen. I'll take pictures and post them soon for sure! I digress once again.

Grant will be taking golf lessons soon which he is extremely happy to be doing.

Cooper, the hard working other silly twin, will be taking golf lessons right alongside his brother. He loves sports of any kind and Austin has increased his excitement about golf because it is a sport that he loves. Austin took golf lessons when we lived in Lymm, England, and is quite good at it. I think he should play for his high school team, but he assures me that he not good enough. I have to disagree but I am a little partial. Cooper is such a sweetheart. He takes the time every morning to say, "Good morning, Mom" with a huge smile on his face and gives me a kiss on the lips. He melts my heart. It's not that the other children don't say "Good morning", it's just that he goes out of his way to make that connection with me. The others melt my heart in other ways.

If you read up to this point, yay you! I'm tired and have to go to bed now.

Our Beach Trip

2011-08-04T18:10:00.000-04:00

Phil, Jane, Amy, and Megan arrived safely last Friday afternoon, but not without a little excitement. In Jane's words, "We prayed that we'd get here safely, but not our suitcases." At least they were delivered to them in the same evening that they arrived here. It could have been worse!

Time has flown by as it usually does, but we have packed in a lot of fun! Tomorrow we are heading west to Yellowstone, their family by plane and ours by van. Our family plans on stopping by Walnut Grove to see the Little House museum on the way to our first hotel.

The next stop will be Mount Rushmore and onto Crazy Horse and the Badlands.

We'll stay in eastern Wyoming and then meet back up with them at Yellowstone on Sunday.

Since Lake Michigan looks like the sea but doesn't taste like it, we had to take our friends from England there.

Jane inquired about how big the lake is to which my reply was, "I'm not sure." That's a good question though, isn't it?

Answer: It's 307 miles from north to south and 114 miles across from east to west. Wow! Our God did that!

beyond excited

2011-07-29T14:21:00.000-04:00

We have been anticipating, talking about, and counting down, dare I say, for the past 18 months to this very day. This day means our friends from Lymm, England will be spending a glorious 17 days with us.

They are probably landing about now at O'Hare and will then be boarding a plane to Kalamazoo. Sadly, that second flight doesn't always happen which could mean delays. We're praying against that nonsense and if all goes according to plan, I will be hugging Jane by 4:45 EST.

Phil, Jane, Amy, and Megan became some of our dearest friends while we lived in England. It is amazing how God weaved our hearts together in such a way that a life-long friendship was established. We knew before we even moved that their family would one day take a holiday here.

Our plans include:
~talking
~laughing
~eating
~swimming
~hugging
~relaxing by the pool
~taking a million photos
~reminiscing
~worshiping at our church together
~sightseeing
~shopping
~take too many pictures
~enjoying a glass of wine here and there
~drinking coffee or tea depending on the mood
~hugging some more
~watching the girls in their all-girl band, GG BAMM, as they sing current tunes and play dress-up
~diving into the pool
~riding the quad
~oh, the list goes on and on...

During our second week together we'll be going to Yellowstone and the Grand Canyon. The hardest part of the trip will be the goodbyes, but let's not even think about that!

Megan, Braaten, Melanie, and Amy

Amy & Megan in Wales

Shawn and Phil

Emma, Carol, and Jane

Driver in Training

2011-07-15T22:53:00.000-04:00

I can remember when Austin was about 3 years old and his grandpa, my dad, would say in his strong Jersey accent,

"Remember this kid, Austin Busse, he's gonna be famous one day."

He said that because Austin's love of baseball and great skill set to play amazed him. He was truly proud of him.

You have to understand that my dad was a taxi driver in New Jersey and he had the gift of gab. He loved to tell stories and hear his own voice I think. He would tell anyone willing to listen story upon story, one of which was that of his grandson who would one day be famous.

Fast forward about 12 years and here Austin is. He's about 5 or 6 inches taller than me, still plays a mean game of baseball, he's going to be a sophomore, he loves going to church with us, fishing is one of his most favorite hobbies, and this week I took him to driver training every morning.

He'll have a license before we know it!

I can still picture his curly locks and his dimpled chin as he would gaze up at me and ask me to read a book to him. I can remember him asking me to draw his favorite drawing... a fish. He'd say, "You do da fish!" Everyone that was willing would draw that same fish for him and it made him really happy.

My boy is growing up. He's a young man and I sure am proud of him.

His grandpa would have been, too.

the handsome men in my life

2011-07-15T08:27:00.001-04:00

Watching them watch a baseball game never looked so good.

My firstborn started driver training this week.. Can he really be that old?

I love it when he wears those blue shades.

What a great shot of Grant. Oh, those eyes...

And a sweaty Cooper, sitting on the bench waiting for his turn to bat, makes my heart skip a beat.

I wonder what Grant is pondering here. I love that he has a Union Jack shirt on in front of our colonial flag. And today marks exactly 2 weeks before our British friends come for Holiday at our house.

That cone looks mighty good!

And you, My Love, make my heart beat faster.

Cool twin shot. Who is who? Can you guess?

Still waiting for his turn to bat...

How's your summer going?

Mine has been busy, but blessed.

Happy Independence Day

2011-07-04T12:22:00.000-04:00

RAGGED OLD FLAG

I walked through a county courthouse square, On a park bench an old man was sitting there.

I said, "Your old courthouse is kinda run down." 

He said, "Naw, it'll do for our little town."

I said, "Your flagpole has leaned a little bit, And that's a Ragged Old Flag you got hanging on it."

He said, "Have a seat", and I sat down. "Is this the first time you've been to our little town?"

I said, "I think it is." He said, "I don't like to brag, But we're kinda proud of that Ragged Old Flag."

"You see, we got a little hole in that flag there When Washington took it across the Delaware. And it got powder-burned the night Francis Scott Key Sat watching it writing "Oh Say Can You See." And it got a bad rip in New Orleans With Packingham and Jackson tuggin' at its seams. And it almost fell at the Alamo Beside the Texas flag, but she waved on through. She got cut with a sword at Chancellorsville And she got cut again at Shiloh Hill. There was Robert E. Lee, Beauregard, and Bragg, And the south wind blew hard on that Ragged Old Flag."

"On Flanders Field in World War I She got a big hole from a Bertha gun. She turned blood red in World War II She hung limp and low by the time it was through. She was in Korea and Vietnam. She went where she was sent by her Uncle Sam."

"She waved from our ships upon the briny foam, And now they've about quit waving her back here at home. In her own good land she's been abused -- She's been burned, dishonored, denied and refused."

"And the government for which she stands Is scandalized throughout the land. And she's getting threadbare and wearing thin, But she's in good shape for the shape she's in. 'Cause she's been through the fire before And I believe she can take a whole lot more."

"So we raise her up every morning, Take her down every night. We don't let her touch the ground And we fold her up right. On second thought I DO like to brag, 'Cause I'm mighty proud of that Ragged Old Flag."

Written by Johnny Cash

not such a good idea...

2011-07-01T17:09:00.000-04:00

sometimes you have to take a chance...

and just hope it works out.

Right?

I had this ridiculous notion that if I bought these gigantic cleats at a steal

that I could put them on e-bay and perhaps make a small profit.

I should have realized that the tiny market that might be looking for

a size 16 football cleat, or

maybe even a size 17

might not be interested in these particular beauties.

:-)

You gotta laugh at yourself sometimes.

My son, Austin, on the other hand, got a hunch about these bad boys.

He paid $3.99 and sold them for $16.05.

Nice job, Son.

My girlfriend Liz and I were talking about how I hadn't written a post in awhile which is why I came up with this brilliant topic.

It's part of what's happening around here these days so why not post about it.

Be blessed this Independence Day.

We are having some great weather around here which makes for a fun weekend.

vibrant & beautiful

2011-06-12T11:55:00.000-04:00

I love it when this tree is in full bloom.

Its color is amazing to look at.

One sunny morning, this is what I saw and I was in amazed.

Recently, Battle Creek experienced a tornado and our city was hit pretty hard, although nothing like in Joplin or Springfield.

This tree was hit and a couple of others. It was pulled halfway out of the ground and my husband is trying to save it. He pulled it back with his truck and put stakes down to hold it in place. I've noticed it is on a slight angle again.

We'll keep working with it.

Our power was out for 5 days... yes 5. It wasn't easy, but with the help of friends, we did it!

Lamentations 3:22-23

New International Version (NIV)

22 Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail. 23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.

I'm so thankful for God's wonderful mercy. Have a great Sunday!

'Thursday Thirteen'

2011-06-09T21:46:00.000-04:00

What’s the Thursday 13?
The Thursday 13 is a weekly meme with a simple theme: each Thursday you blog a list of 13 things. What kind of things? Any kind! Just come up with a list theme and run with it. One week you may list “13 things on my mind” and maybe the next week you’d list “my top 13 favorite movies”. Back in early 2007, Janet came up with the idea of going through the alphabet; “13 Things I Love that begin with the letter A”, etc. That gives you 26 weeks of ideas! Each new 13 will be posted at approximately 8PM EST every Wednesday evening.

Visit here to join this meme.

My list : 13 Things I am looking forward to this summer:

1. Our friends from England coming to visit for 2 weeks at the end of July. Phil, Jane, Amy, and Megan will be flying over on July 29th. We are taking a few day trips in Michigan and will be relaxing by the pool just taking it easy. After that we'll be heading out west to Yellowstone followed by the Grand Canyon. (Not looking forward to all the driving!) On the way, our family plans on seeing Mount Rushmore and the Little House on the Prairie museum among other places. I can't wait to see the Savage family!!

2. Pool Dayz: Every Tuesday I open my pool to friends from 10 - 3. Last year we had perfect weather just about every week soaking in the sun, swimming, eating together, and just connecting.

3. Paint projects. Yes, I said paint projects. I love finding things at garage sales and Goodwill and fixing them up.

4. Going to garage sales.

5. Having some of my family from New Jersey come for a weekend visit in just 2 weeks. I can't wait. A few of our cousins from Indiana will be coming up to join us.

6. Taking it easy and not doing school.

7. Enjoying barbecues as a family. My husband grills some mean food.

8. Reading on the front porch and having quiet time with the Lord on my back deck.

9. Going to South Haven for beach days.

10. Spending time with my girlfriends.

11. Cooking and baking with the kids.

12. Playing volleyball out front.

13. Going for walks after dinner with my groom.

How 'bout you? What are you looking forward to this summer?

new kid on the block

2011-06-07T08:21:00.000-04:00

Charlie is our new addition!

We went to Indiana to my nephew Will's open house and came home with a puppy.

My brother-in-law, Tim, sure knows how to get rid of a litter of 8 puppies! It's as though the open house was for them because everyone couldn't keep their paws off of those pups. There was always someone holding them and people kept crowding around their pen.

My cousin, Jill, who is married to Tim, and Tim's my husband's brother, (Go figure that one out)*, had been praying that our family would take one.

He is just as cute as can be, but he sure has a ton of energy first thing in the morning.

If you have any puppy training tips, I'd love to hear them.

In the meantime, have a wonderful day.

*A couple of cousins are married to brothers. :-)

2011-05-23T15:28:00.000-04:00

Braaten has some really great friends. She has beautiful friends in England (Amy, Megan, Sophie, Zoe, Ellie, & Emelia). And Amy & Megan, who are sisters, are even coming to visit us this summer for 2 weeks. How awesome is that!

She has beautiful friendships here, too. When we moved back, she met Renae and their friendship began quickly. Now everyone thinks they look like twins. They have so much in common except for a quirky nickname. Pickle. Yep, that's what everyone calls Renae. hehe

What a blessing to have friends of all kinds. Braaten has the privilege of having many (Claire M., Claire B., Hannah F., Hannah W., Nicole, Ellie, Sydney, Megan F., Megan H., and the list goes on and on.)

Thank you girls for loving my girl.

Five Question Friday!

2011-05-23T09:24:00.001-04:00

I tried to post this on Friday, but it didn't work for some reason. I thought I would put it up today anyway. :-)

Mama M from "My Little Life" started this blog carnival and it's easy peasy to put a post up so I love it. And you can get to know a little more about me.

Rules for Five Question Friday: Copy and paste the following questions to your blog post, answer them, then watch for the linky to appear on Friday morning and LINK UP! Oh, andhaving fun is a MUST!

Questions for Friday, May 19th: (Special thanks to @joleneslavik, @ThisDaddys_Blog,@deannajw, Christine, and Sandy for their question suggestions! I would love to link YOU in a future 5QF, so just c'mon over to my community to offer up your best question suggestions, or just watch for my Twitter shout out for questions and@5crookedhalos me using hashtag #5QF!)

1. Do you and your spouse go to bed at the same time?

We've always gone to bed together until recently. We used to and now I am tired sooner and my man likes a little veg time in front of the t.v. We don't watch the same things always so I retreat to our bedroom and read and sometimes even pull out my dvd player and watch a chick flick.

2. A question for the ladies...What kind of facial hair do you like on your man?

I love Shawn's mustache and goatee. He wears it very well! When he shaves it he looks a lot younger, but I still prefer him with it.

3. What's the worst vacation you've ever taken?
This question is stumping me. I'm not sure I have ever had a bad vacation. OK, I got it! I just thought of something. When we first moved to England, we drove, yes drove, all the way to Italy. Believe me, our English friends still think we're nuts for driving and not flying. We wanted to see France and Switzerland on the way, so what can we say? Anyway... on the way back from Italy we stopped in France just outside of Paris to stay in a camper that was ferrr-reezing! It was so chilly, the propane tank was empty, and we had no heat. We couldn't wait to get out of that place! Overall, though, it was a fabulous vacation.

4. What's the first-ever blog you followed?

The blog I followed first was the blogger that encouraged me to blog in the first place. Her name is Pam, she graduated high school with my husband and her blog is: You're Gonna Miss This. I am really thankful that she talked me into it.

5. Do you enjoy amusement parks?

I most certainly do. I used to love roller coasters, but I think I'm a little chicken now. As I've aged, it just feels scarier to be so out of control.

Here kitty, kitty...

2011-05-15T16:35:00.000-04:00

Our cat, Ying, had kittens on May 2nd. I mentioned in my last post that she would have them any day and I think it happened the very next day.

Since we school at home, this was a great experience for the kids.

I wasn't sure whether Ying would hide to have her kittens or if she would have them in the separate garage that she and our other 2 cats stay in.

On that Monday morning she was wanting to find a place in the house since we let all 3 of our cats come in here and there so we can spend a little time with them. She was upstairs in the girls' room and went and laid down in one of Braaten's drawers that are underneath her bed. I was tempted to let her have them there because I wanted them to be safe and warm. I thought about that for a moment or two longer and realized that wasn't a good plan at all. Eww.

I picked her up out of there and went downstairs with her to the laundry room. I emptied a basket, put a blanket down, and set her in there. She jumped right out, followed me back into the kitchen, and then made a beeline to Braaten's cozy little clothes drawer beneath her bed.

We all knew then that IT WAS TIME.

I scrambled downstairs back into the laundry room. Before we went in there, I handed her over to Melanie. Just as Melanie was making her comfortable in her arms, Ying's water broke. Mel was grossed out, and I quickly escorted her to the garage where I put a blanket down. I hoped she would have her babies there.

An hour passed and we checked in on her. There was no sign of new kitties, but she found the blanket. It didn't take long and by 9:40 am she had 4 kittens. The kids were able to witness the 5th being born and I didn't see any of it. I was treating a patient down in my office. Bummer!

Here is our happy little mommy. My guess was that she would have 3 kittens because she was carrying so small and some of the others guessed 4. she fooled us all and had 5. Bless her little self.

We have another cat named Lily that is expecting and due to have her first litter at the end of this month. So far we have homes for 3 of Ying's babes and will have to find more for Lily's in the summer. We would like to keep a kitten from each litter, but obviously we'll have to take our 3 adult cats to the vet so that the kitty population is maintained around here.

Did I mention that we also hatched 2 baby chicks and have 13 more eggs in our incubator?

It sure has been exciting around here!

Five Minute Friday

2011-05-06T10:12:00.000-04:00

I've decided to participate in this "5 Minute Friday" where you take 5 minutes and write your heart out. Here goes...

It's Mother's Day weekend and I thought about what I would like to do to celebrate it. My hubby usually has a plan- he and the kids make me breakfast in bed and then we spend the day together gardening and taking it easy.

I'd like to stretch it to a weekend celebration. I asked my hubs if we could get some unfinished projects done around the house, if I could do some painting projects, and also get caught up on any grading we need to do on the kids' school work.

Sounds like a lot of work, but when things get done I feel a sense of accomplishment. And if the 7 of us work at it together, it'll take the pressure that I put on myself to try and get it all done.

What will you be doing this Mother's Day?

busy birthing

2011-05-02T08:40:00.000-04:00

We've got baby chicks as of Saturday!

It was our first time incubating eggs. We did 12 eggs and have only gotten 2 chicks, but it's exciting for all of us nonetheless.

Melanie named this one Yoko Ono. :)

And this little guy is Lennon, of course! Grant named that one.

And today's big news:

Our kitty kat, Ying, is probably going to have her kittens.

She has been laying around a lot for the past 2 days resting and taking it easy. We were expecting kittens between last Friday and Tuesday. Today seems like the perfect day!

I'll post pictures soon of their progress.

memory lane- western nj

2011-04-14T09:29:00.000-04:00

When we recently went to New Jersey, we had a little time to kill before going to our friends' home for dinner. We decided to drive around and show some of the places we lived in or visited to the kids. They were all very small during that time period and may not remember. Austin, having been 8 years old when we moved to Michigan, recalls quite a bit of it. And Braaten does as well.

Once we left Pittsburgh to get closer to family back in 1997, we found this apartment complex. We were expecting our 2nd baby. It was a 2 bedroom apartment that had a swimming pool and a separate building that had a laundry room. Ugh! Shlepping with loads and loads of laundry is never fun, but you do what you have to do. At least it wasn't in an entirely different location!

Our place was the one on the right.

Oh, the Italian food from this place was delish!

Though my husband worked at the place that makes Nilla Wafers back then, he also found a part-time job at this place. He is and has always been dedicated to our family and does whatever it takes to provide for us. At the time, I was not licensed in our state to practice chiropractic, but I did sit for the board in early 1998 in order to fill in for other chiropractors.

Austin has a penchant for golf courses and mini golf centers and I wonder if his love for the game started here?

He loves checking out the details of mini golf courses.

Our twins, Grant & Cooper, were born at this hospital. Before knowing that I was carrying twins, my desire was to have our 4th child at home with a midwife. At 19 weeks pregnant, I found out that I was carrying children #'s 4 AND 5 and the birthing plan changed.

My midwife still delivered those precious bundles of joy (weighing in at 6 lbs 7 oz. & 7 lbs. 3 oz.), but it happened in the hospital with the doctor she worked with present to help if needed. The doctor asked Shawn and I if his daughter could attend the births as she was trying to decide where in medicine she would eventually work. After having 3 kids already, who cares right? The more, the merrier. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that I just wanted those babies out and wasn't thinking clearly.

Moving further along in our walk down memory lane, this is downtown Hackettstown. What a quaint place! Shawn and I realized when we were passing through that we hadn't spent much time there which we both regret. I know now that it was because we were raising a young & rapidly growing family.

We lived just a couple of miles from here.

Poor Braaten wasn't in the pix because she was feeling ill during our 10 hour trek to Jersey.

Apartment dwelling got old after a year and Shawn and I found this place (a townhome) in a gated community called, "Panther Valley." It was my first-ever house in all my life. I grew up living in apartments so this was a HUGE deal to me. That, and I had my very own laundry room. Yippeeee!

The street we lived on was Duck Hawk Court. Strange name, eh?

This fella was a little guy when we used to walk on that bridge so he could see the little fishies swimming around on the way to the playground. He just had to get out of the car to check it out again.

And finally, this is the school that Braaten went to for a year after the twins were born for preschool. She has such fond memories of that place.

Unfortunately I have no pictures of the home we bought after the townhome that we lived in for 3 years prior to the big move to the midwest. I can probably dig one out and scan one another time.

I loved taking a walk down memory lane and I hope you did, too.

"Everyday is the weekend for you, Mom"...

2011-04-12T08:27:00.000-04:00

When my precious daughter was pondering the fact that she has to return to school today, she wanted to continue to bask in her springbreak time off. You could see the thoughts swirling in her mind. She had such a great week that included time back east and then sleepovers at friends one night after the next. And one conclusion she made at the end of it was this:

"Everyday is the weekend for you, Mom."

The record player in my own swirling thoughts went scratch in my head! What? I guess my life is one giant weekend. I reminded her that my life isn't a weekend and that the work I do is at times very hard. Taking care of our family of seven, homeschooling, keeping house, keeping a schedule that is crazy at times, cooking, cleaning, baking, growing in my relationship with Christ through service, Bible study, etc., being intentional in my marriage to continue to grow closer to my husband, and the list goes on and on.

I concluded in the end that being able to stay at home is like everyday being a weekend, but the reality is that it's not.

One day she'll understand.

talk of the town

2011-04-11T09:27:00.000-04:00

There were different reasons for spending spring break in NJ~

*to spend time with our friend Barb who is grieving the loss of her husband
*to see my family
*to spend time with our friends
*to visit the Cake Boss
*to go to New York City even if only for a few hours
*to eat some great food
*to take a walk down memory lane and show the kids a bit of their roots and mine

We did all of those things in 4 days and we had a blast!

I seldom went to Helmer's, but it was a place my mother loved. It's a German restaurant on the corner of 11th & Washington Streets in Hoboken. Her favorite meal to eat was the open steak sandwich with mashed potatoes. I'm pretty sure her favorite rubbed off on all of us because that's what we each ordered when we had the opportunity to go there.

This was once a bank now turned Walgreens!

I found that interesting so I snapped a photo.

One of our favorite places to eat is Benny Tudinos Italian Restaurant.

They have ginormous pizza slices that are delicious.

That's Huge!

And look at those slices.

My alma mater

I can't tell the tales to my children of how long and difficult the road to school was. It was a half a block away!

And if you visit Hoboken, you should definitely buy some homemade mozzarella with ham and salami to go with it. They make the best Italian sandwiches.

Fiore's has been around since 1913.

Shawn and I went to Boulevard East in West New York where there is a fantastic place to see the NY skyline. Hoboken has a great view as well, but we happened to be in this area at the time.

I love New York!

The Cake Boss

2011-04-07T20:06:00.001-04:00

My hometown happens to be that of the Cake Boss

a.ka. Carlo's Bakery.

It's Hoboken- where the first-ever game of baseball was played and where Frank Sinatra was born.

My mom & dad raised all of us, Denise, April, Cindy, Bobby, Tracey, Jimmy, and I there. We lived in an apartment building in different parts of our one-square mile town and I think that since I have been away for some time, I appreciate going home all the more. It's a great place; one that I am proud of. Not because Buddy has his bakery there, but because it's where my parents worked hard to raise us to be loving, responsible, helpful, caring people.

We just took a mini spring break trip to see our friend, Barb, who recently lost here husband of 32 years, my family, and to check out what's happening at the now-famous bake shop.

My kids have been living in Michigan for most of their lives and Hoboken is that place their mom reminisces about and the place that connects them to family. Their cousins and aunts and uncles are there and they love going to see them.

It's only recently that they have tuned into the show where they have come to know and love the characters. They couldn't wait to step into the bakery and experience what they see on t.v.

So here's our trip in photos.

The line is long usually and it took us about an hour and a half to get in.

The City Hall is directly across the street and it's where I worked throughout high school during my summer breaks.

These clocks were put in about 15 years ago. I love how they make the town so quaint.

My hubby spotted the Carlo's van and went around back to get a few pictures.

They were waiting to see if anyone would come out of the door where they usually exit with cakes to load in the van. They never did.

Braaten saw several of the family members while looking in the window.

While in line for any length of time, you get to know the folks around you. You find out that they come from all over. The fellow behind us was from Atlanta. He was with his wife and 2 children and offered to snap a photo.

While we were stepping in and out of line to take pictures or to peek in the window, a gentleman touched my husband's arm and started talking to him. He happens to work with him in Battle Creek. Huh? You're all the way here from home, too? Small world.

Random photo of Washington Street caddy corner to the bakery.

I remember passing this store countless time while I was growing up. I love how vintage it looks.

As we were standing in the bakery, number in hand, we heard the cashier ask a patron what her zip code was for the credit card she was using. Yes, you have to wait again once you enter! She said it and we couldn't believe our ears. It was our exact zip code. No joke!

A lady and her daughter were visiting from Michigan, too. Three families in that crazy line were from our town. What are the chances?

Buddy's sister, Lisa, was so sweet and friendly.

His mom came out momentarily and everyone cheered.

Braaten was so happy to have her picture taken with Lisa.

As we were paying dearly for our baked goods, Buddy came down the stairs. Everyone cheered again with the hopes that he would come out and talk to us. He did and he was graciously thanking us for coming.

What a fun day we had as a family.

remembering...

2011-03-27T10:03:00.000-04:00

As I sat at my kitchen table this morning with my husband and 3 boys (the girls are at a sleepover), I found myself staring out my kitchen window. And then I realized, I was remembering...

My hands triggered the memories.

My hands?....... yes

They resemble my mom's. As I get older, they look more and more like hers.

And as I peered out the window noticing the sunshine in all its glory, I began to remember her.

I remembered her sweet embrace,

her beautiful face,

her veiny hands,

her pretty brown eyes,

her smell,

the love she unconditionally gave to me.

I realized that I don't talk about her much on my blog.

She's gone now. She went to be with the Lord in July, 2004.

We had our moments as every mother and daughter does and maybe that's what keeps me from pondering and writing.

The fact remains that she was one of my heroes.

She cheered me on always.

She believed in me as a person.

And even though she wasn't always happy in her marriage to my dad, she taught me the importance of being a devoted, loving wife; one that pays attention to her husband and his needs.

She showed me how to carry myself as a woman.

She told me I was smart and that I can achieve great things. And I have.

And after the Lord got a hold of my heart, brought me to my knees, and I received him as my Lord and Savior, I had the privilege of praying with my mom years later so that she could be a Daughter of the King as well.

How beautifully sweet.

And when I was growing up, she would sing this song to me,

You are my sunshine

My only sunshine

You make me happy, when times are gray

You'll never know dear, how much I love you.

Please don't take my sunshine away.

And when she was in the hospital and her life was coming to an end, I sang that song right back to her. She was in a coma, but she smiled as I sang and with great difficulty her face gently moved.

I love that my sweet Jesus can use the bulging veins on my hands to remind me of one of THE most important people in my life.

My Mother.

mantel fun

2011-03-23T11:46:00.000-04:00

I've seen shutters used on top of mantels on several blogs and I love 'em. I found a pair over at Goodwill for $3.99 and transformed them.

I usually paint in my garage or outside. Not so with cold temps. Have no fear, my basement is the perfect place for such an endeavor.

I used paint I already had which makes it really cost-effective.

And this is the end result. Whatdaya think?

And as my mantel reads... may you enjoy all the bountiful blessings that God shows you in the mundane, the everyday, the almost unnoticeable, and in the absolutely obvious!

Highlights of our first year back from England

2011-03-12T12:25:00.001-05:00

Today marks one year to the day that we have been back from our 2 year adventure overseas in the U.K. We got to do some great things and see some amazing places while there and it warrants an entire post of all that we cherish and miss from our time there.

But today we celebrate all that has happened within the past year and being able to record it on my blog will allow our family to cherish it through the years.

Take a walk down memory lane with me.

These first 2 are not so much highlights, but are important things worth mentioning that lead up to our transition from the U.K. to the U.S.

This truck was filled in its entirety with our many belongings. My hubby's company was gracious enough to let us bring most of our things with us only to have to pack them up 2 years later for our return.

When we got to the airport in Chicago, our flight to Kalamazoo was canceled. That should not have come as a surprise to us since that flight gets changed often. We found ourselves scurrying to find 2 rental cars that would fit our 14 suitcases in to get us back to Battle Creek. Once we got there and settled into our hotel, we closed on our new home...

We hired a friend to paint every room.

We lovingly turned it into a home.

Our children became very familiar with our hotel since our stay was about a month long.

Our kids reunited with their cousins and were able to enjoy themselves at a wedding in Indiana.

We celebrated our first Easter and traditionally colored eggs. Take notice of the boxes in the background.

We traded in the Lymm Dam for the Busse Pond. Our friends, Mike and Liz, gave us their little boat to explore the new waters. It's Austin's hope that one day he'll be able to make a great catch. He's tried, but it hasn't been easy.

The kids love it when Daddy takes them for rides on the quad. Austin, Braaten, and Melanie can operate it as well.

Melanie Grace turned 10 in her new home.

She had a great birthday party since all of her friends helped to celebrate it with her.

We acquired 3 new kitties from 3 different litters. We thought they were all girls and named them Ying (the gray & white one), Molly (the dark one), and Lily (the red and white one). Stay tuned for a post about our discovery of which one really is a boy.

Coming home allowed me to rejoin my girlfriends here.

(Natalie, Jamie, Sarah, me, and Liz from left to right)

God gave Jamie her new little blessing, Emma Lynn, on May 22nd. She will be turning one in just 2 short months.

We excitedly learned how to turn our new swimming pool from this icky state,

to this one!

We enjoyed many a pool party once we officially opened it and Mondays were designated pool days for friends that could make it.

I don't know about you, but I'm sure looking forward to summer days again. Springtime is fast approaching and with it brings so much to look forward to as well.

Our move back allowed the boys to get back to playing baseball with the Marshall Recreation League.

We were able to celebrate with Sydney as she graduated from Harper Creek High School.

Her two uncles were acting like a couple of yahoos with grass skirts on their heads!

Our first trip to Lake Michigan was amazing! That water was so warm that Sarah and I played in it for an hour.

From the time that Austin was a little boy, he would always ask his Grandpa Busse how many eggs he collected from their hens. He persistently asked them through the years as we talked to them from NJ and later from Michigan when we eventually moved there. It was only natural that we would get chickens when we bought this house. Shawn and Austin built a chicken coop for our new girls.

Our friends gave us their chickens when they had to move. They are the best chickens and lay 7 to 9 eggs a day even in the dead of winter.

Aren't they lovely eggs? That giant one had to hurt!

Our family vacation was to D.C. in July We were in Georgetown here. We didn't have nearly enough time to spend there, but enjoyed what we did see.

Melanie, Austin, Cooper, Braaten, and Grant had fun in our nation's capitol, but it sure was hot!

And if you are in Maryland at just the right time, you must partake in eating crabs.

We got to visit our friends, Barb and Skip. We didn't know it at the time, but it was the last time that we'd get to see Skip. He passed away on January 30th of this year. We sure miss him.

We got to see all of my nieces and nephews as we gathered at a Spanish restaurant and then spent time in a local park.

We also reunited with some of my best friends in all the world: Annette, Natasha, and Mayra. Mayra's daughter, Ava, is on the left and Natasha's daughters, Victoria & Elizabeth, are on the right.

We went swimming at the Jersey Shore. It was Jerseylicious! I've never even seen that show, but the title is descriptive for our experience.

Visits to Indiana as often as possible are taking place again and since it's our kids' favorite place to go, we are really happy about it.

Family from Indiana and New Jersey, on my mom's side, came up to visit us in Michigan. We had about 28 people sleeping in our home or outside in tents. It was so much fun! We took them to Lake Michigan for a beach day.

We got to see our Pastor's son, Caleb, get married to Annan. What a beautiful day it was.

Our girls played on a volleyball team for the first time. It was fun for our family to watch them play for the Battle Creek Homeschool Hawks.

Melanie (bottom left) also played soccer for the first time. It's a good fit for her. She is looking forward to spring soccer coming up soon.

It was a huge deal for us when we sent our oldest, Austin, to Marshall High School after being homeschooled for 7 years. It has been an amazing & successful transition for him. He is really excelling.

A few of my friends and I got to surprise our friend, Sarah (the redhead on the floor), for her 40th birthday. She is not easy to keep a secret from, but we were very successful. We gave her a scrapbook filled with letters of love from each of us with pictures.

Austin made the freshman basketball team. It was a good season and now he is on to baseball.

We quickly became reminded of Michigan winters.

Grant & Cooper turned 9 and had a sledding birthday party.

We celebrated our first Christmas in our new home.

And had a party for the 2nd teenager of our family, Braaten, as she turned 13 in January.

And the latest, most exciting venture is the chiropractic office we are opening in our home:

Busse Family Chiropractic!

I've been in practice since 1992, have worked full and part-time, and did not know that God would put it on my heart this year to finally open up my own office. I'm amazed at all He is doing to make it happen and I'm humbled to care for people in this way. Truly.

There have been ups and downs, tears and laughter, sadness and tremendous joy in this past year. We are incredibly blessed and grateful to God for all the joy in the journey he has allowed us to experience.

a little advice

2011-03-09T13:57:00.000-05:00

I was just taking a moment, or two, or 284 to read a few blogs.

I stayed awhile at the Pioneer Woman and if you know her, you understand. She is quite an amazing woman with an ability to capture life through photography like no other, she cooks great food albeit fattening most of the time, and she loves her husband and family more than anything. I was reading her thoughts on tips about blogging and one of them was, "Blog often" even if you don't know what to talk about.

That's been my problem lately, but I thought I'd get on here after her encouragement and just write. It helps that I have recently been reading her newly written love story, "High Heels to Tractor Wheels." If you love a good love story then this is the book for you. I got sucked in big time, and I am reading it every chance I get. I'm a romantic, I adore my husband, and reading their story makes me appreciate my groom even more. If you get a chance, read it and then...

let me know what you think.

Wednesday Hodge Podge

2011-03-02T07:41:00.000-05:00

My friend, Joyce, over at From This Side of the Pond is hosting one of my favorite weekly memes. She posts questions that we get to answer which allows you to get to know me a little better. Thanks Joyce. :)

1. March 2nd is Dr. Seuss's birthday so I'm wondering...do you like green eggs and ham? Okay-how about this instead...how do you like your eggs? Or don't you?
**I like my eggs scrambled, and not wet in the least. If I have my choice, melted cheese on top makes them even better. Oh, and this grosses some people out... I like ketchup on my eggs. I'm not sure where I got this little idea from, but it started when I was a kid. :0)

2. Is March coming in like a lion or something less ferocious where you live?
**It's more like a turtle or snail. When I think of March, I think of spring time, but outside my windows I see WINTER. The white stuff hasn't melted yet and it's been known to snow through March and at points in April. I am more than ready to see my Wisteria in full bloom.

3. Do you work better or worse under pressure?
**Generally speaking, I work better under pressure. I have a tendency to procrastinate if given the opportunity. Having said that, if I feel like I'm under too much pressure, I might fumble at my task and not be productive at all. Finding balance somewhere in there is what I prefer.

4. March Madness-are you a fan? It's college basketball in case you're wondering. And if you're outside the USA tell us-is there any sort of 'madness' taking place during March in your part of the world?

**I'm a fan only because my hubs and oldest boy loves watching it. We are huge Boilermaker fans around here since my hubby went to Purdue and even our late, beloved Fletch loved wearing the infamous black & gold. Well, um, maybe it was the kids who loved seeing him in it.

5. Under what circumstances do you do your best thinking?
**When I'm studying I need total quiet. That's just the way I roll. I have to find a quiet place in our home, and that's hard to do with 5 children, but it's possible. I usually go into my bedroom to do that. When I walk on the treadmill, I get the opportunity to have some quiet time to just think and ponder, but not if HGTV or the Food Network is on.

6. What item of clothing from your wardrobe do you wear most often?
**My jeans for sure. I wear them everyday. I found the most comfortable pair recently at Ma*y's.

7. Do you use sarcasm?
**I've been known to on a bad day, or around that time of the month, but I truly try not to. It's hurtful in most cases.

8. Insert your own random thought here.
**Since I talked about the lovely Michigan weather above, I realized it has kept me from 3 important things I have really wanted to be able to do in the past few weeks. 1.) Go to the funeral of a dear family friend, Skip, in NJ in the beginning of February 2.) Go to my niece's shower. She is having her first baby in the next couple of weeks, and 3.) See my oldest sister, Denise. She was going to fly from NJ to Detroit to visit for a day and a half on her way to Denver for work. I was bummed about missing each one of those things, but realize that God's timing is perfect! I will be able to see Skip's wife in the beginning of April and my sister, Denise, too. Plus Denise will plan a weekend trip to Michigan this coming summer, and we'll be heading to Indiana this weekend to see our niece and shower her with a gift for baby. It all works out in the end.

ramblings from a non-consistent blogger

2011-02-21T12:25:00.001-05:00

Let's have a chat, shall we?

I think it's high time to give a Busse Family Update. It's driving me batty, however, that I am not inspired in any consistent way to blog on a regular basis. That bugs me! I can chalk it up to being very busy, aren't we all, but also I don't know what to write about, or I am simply too tired. And with that, I also don't read my favorite blogs (yours) and then when I do blog, I don't hear from many. I understand that, but it's still hard. If I write for the original purpose, however, which is to journal about my family, then comments shouldn't matter, right. OK, now that I got that all off my chest, I can write.

Today Austin, my freshman, the one I put in school after 7 years of homeschooling, has a snow day. A snow day for him means a snow day for the rest of us. I homeschool our other 4 and we like a little time off here and there. BTW, Austin is doing fabulously in school. He was ready, we were ready, and God prepared us all for this new venture. He received high honors for his first semester and we couldn't be more proud of him. He's very diligent in his school work and he is currently on the freshmen basketball team to add to his schedule. It does get busy. He is just about done with basketball, and baseball is sneaking in the back door.

Braaten, our beautiful 13 year old girl has been saving her money. Why you ask? Well, saving is a good thing, but she has a very specific reason for this particular savings. England!! She has decided that she wants to save her money to buy her very own plane ticket to go back and visit her friends. We are so proud of her! She is the same girl that couldn't wait to get back to America to be back with the friends she left, to see family on a more regular basis, and to resume life as it once was before we left. Little did she know that she would miss (very much) all that she left back in the U.K. Speaking of missing it... we all do. God really blessed us with friendships, a church, traveling opportunities, and so much more than that, and we all miss it. I keep waiting for my hubby to have to go back to Manchester on a busy trip to go right along with him. A business class ticket is at least equal to about 3 or 4 tickets in coach. Who needs comfier seats and ice cream sundaes? Not me if it means I get to go back. Back to Braaten, she is now watching children to earn some money and is accompanying me at Bible study and taking care of the little ones while we study Beth Moore's, Esther. A whole other topic... I adore Beth Moore!

Little Miss Mellie, my soon-to-be 11 year old, loves to spend all of her time with big sis. They do just about everything together which means she helps out with the kiddos in the nursery. Mel is full of energy and enjoys cooking with her mama. She is a soccer playing girl and really wants to get back into dance. I keep resisting that because it makes for an even busier schedule. The dance schools typically go from September to June. Maybe in September we can start her up, but at that time, she'll be back into volleyball.

Grant, aka baby a, that's how they name twins in utero. He is a serious reader. He loves when I take them all to the library and when you are bringing 4 homeshcooled kids there, at least 80 books and some videos come home with you. I'm not exaggerating. I will not complain about my childrens' love of reading. Grant does chores every morning which include either taking care of our 3 outdoor cats, or the 9 chickens we have. He is very helpful. He's been playing basketball for an Upward team in which my hubby coaches. Last Saturday he scored putting his team in the lead and they brought home their first win of the season. It's been a rough season for those boys, but at their age, they are just happy to be together.

Cooper, who was once known as baby b, is my youngest of the five. He was 12 minutes apart from Grant, and is my affectionate boy. He loves to say each day, "Good monrning, mom" with a big smile and a kiss on my lips. He melts my heart. He helps by doing the opposite chore that Grant does. They swap each week, and collect the eggs or feed the cats. I love getting those fresh eggs. Coop plays basketball, too, and loves it. He takes after his big brother, Austin, and spends a lot of time with him. And since Austin loves sports, Cooper naturally follows in his footsteps.

As for my husband and I, we have been diligently getting ready to open my own chiropractic office at home. Yesterday, he painted the room in which I will see patients, and I painted a hutch that'll go in there to put products that I will be selling. The hold-up to officially opening has been my license. It lapsed while I lived in England which meant taking several continuing education classes between November and January. I recently completed 42 hours and submitted my application last Wednesday. I will probably receive what I need in about a month or so.

Well, fellow bloggers and friends, I hope you are having a wonderful Monday.

My Sweet Valentine

2011-02-14T08:25:00.001-05:00

Today I woke up to find a red mini rose plant, tulips, a heart-shaped box of truffles, and some Ghiarde*li milk chocolate covered caramel at the kitchen table where I sit. My hubby also hired my daughter to make a handmade card to write me a love note. I love his notes.

I am blessed.

When I think about how God orchestrated everything to bring us together, I am amazed. We found each other when we least expected it, and our love continues to grow daily.

Keeping the Lord as our first love, the center of our family, the One who is the Leader of everything, is the key to it all. I know there are times when we try to lead, do our will, and make poor choices. But when God truly is the center, all is well.

Happy Valentine's Day.

Snow Daze

2011-02-03T15:11:00.000-05:00

We've had snow days yesterday and today. I love them!!

What could be better than a "warmer", sunny day outside with plenty of snow to have fun in?

Braaten, Grant & Cooper were riding around on the quad hauling shovels and pushing snow.

While Melanie & Austin were digging out the igloo.

I asked them to pose inside. They had more digging to do, but I insisted.

It's a blessing when they are getting along and working hard together to accomplish a goal.

Braaten was waiting to haul me back to the house. That sounds funny. It makes me sound huge.

I love seeing the house during any season.

My hubs bought this plow to put on the quad to clear the driveway. You kill two birds with one stone: have fun and clear the drive. It was well worth the price of admission.

That coat is a new find from my local goodwill. It's a Columbia that was a mere $9.99. And my friend's daughter, Hannah, crocheted this hat which belongs to Melanie.

Every kid loves icicles. How is it, Grant?

And Cooper was manning this snow creation.

I love this picture of him.

Are you having fun in the snow?

a year to the day

2011-01-24T14:15:00.001-05:00

Have a you ever been inspired to write a post that begins in your head as something very simple, succinct, and sweet?

Today I'm not sure which way this one will go because it's about a subject that is near and dear to my heart; one that I have also hidden somewhere in a secret place in my head and heart.

It's about Fletcher.

Today marks exactly a year that he passed away. I wrote about it here right in the thick of the pain and heartache. I don't think I've uttered a single word about it since, at least on this blog, but I certainly remember him almost on a daily basis the love that he brought to our family.

Braaten was giving Fletch all kinds of love in our old kitchen back before we moved across the pond. I dare say she is the one in which his tragic death has affected the most. I can't say for sure as we all have grieved in different ways as this year has gone by.

Melanie looks like a little peanut in this photo. I think she is probably about 7 years old (She is almost 11 now). And just like Braaten, she adored him.

I remember this photo so well. It was when we had been separated from Fletcher for months because we were waiting for his shots and everything to be updated so that he can join us in England. We all felt his absence as we were trying to acclimate to new life in the u.K. It felt like if he was with us that our transition would have somehow been easier.

This picture makes me smile because he was resting his chin on my hand as he slept. He was one tired pup!

Hi buddy.

Just writing about him again helps in the healing. I haven't taken the time recently to conjure up too many thoughts, although having said that, I just told the story about how he died to someone and got choked up again.

Taking care of him was a lot of work, but I wouldn't have traded it.

I walked him around the Lymm dam everyday and it kept me trim and him happy in doing so. He would run down into the water no matter how cold it was to get a drink and chase some ducks. He almost always came home wet and dirty and mama had to clean him up.

Not sure what he was hunting here, but it must have been a squirrel.

After that particular day of hunting, he ended up looking like this and I was not too happy.

In his spare time, he enjoyed a game of twister.

And it looks like Mel was giving him a talking-to.

It's ok, Buddy.

Golden Retrievers have a way of melting my heart. Look how pretty he is!

That boy could not get himself back up the hill. I had to go down and help him up. Not a fun day for me.

Austin is funny in this one.

These kids loved him to pieces.

This is the beautiful family that was Fletch's home away from home.

As any sane expat family would, we traveled as often we could. We made the best of the opportunity and tried to see as many places in Europe as possible. That meant Fletcher needed a place to stay. So one day Jane offered their home to him. And since I really didn't want to put him in a dog shelter, that was the best offer in the world.

I loved how our British friends put themselves in front of an American flag for a photo. They went to an Independence celebration with us and then decided to do this for us. They also made it into a Christmas tree ornament which lovingly hangs there during Christmastime.

Megan and Amy are a couple of my daughters' best friends in the whole wide world. See I warned you about this post. Now I'm talking about best friends and traveling. Speaking of travel... their family is coming to see us in August of this year to stay with us for a week and then we all will travel out west to see the Grand Canyon and Yellowstone.

Ava and her mom, Mayra, my dear friend from NJ, came to see us in England.

Braaten took several photos of Ava and Fletch together.

Fletcher was a well-traveled canine. We were all in Scotland here.

And this picture will forever remind me of one of our last walks together. It was a couple of months before he died, but it was a beautiful walk.

Shawn and I took him all around Lymm taking in all of the scenery that we had gotten so used to. Our time in the U.K. was coming to a close and we wanted to capture all of the beauty there. We snapped photos as we walked so that we could always cherish them.

Icy water didn't keep him away from a nice, cold drink.

And this is the big snowstorm in Northwest England in January, 2010. It was the biggest snow that they had had in 30 years. I came to find out recently that the U.K. got record amounts of snow again this winter.

And so it goes. Our dear boy has been gone a year and we think of all the love he brought to our family and wonder when it will be time again to have another furry friend.

For now I guess it'll be chickens and kittens, but the kids ask often when we can have another pup.

If you made it this far, thanks ever so much for reading.

What I've been up to...

2011-01-23T14:07:00.001-05:00

I'm on a new journey it seems.

Once I moved back to Michigan from England and started to see the potential of our new home., I started to realize that I could start a business here. What business do you ask?

A chiropractic office right here at home.

God started to bring patients my way when I wasn't even talking much about this new opportunity. Friends of mine, and people I see on a fairly regular basis, approached me and asked where I practice or do I have my own and it made me think.

And for the first time in 19 years as a doctor of chiropractic, I began to realize that God skilled me to do this even for myself. I gained experience and knowledge through the years by filling in for other docs, by working full-time in Pittsburgh running an office, and most recently by working part-time on a regular basis for a doctor in Battle Creek.

I came back from England with my Michigan license inactive and had to start taking continuing education to change that status to active. It meant taking 42 hours that the State of Michigan approves. I've been to Mt. Pleasant, Michigan, to Dallas, Texas, and next weekend I'm heading to Chi town for the last 14 hours. It's exciting and scary at the same time.

What I love about it all is that God has been preparing me for such a time as this to help people in the comfort of my home, with my children here homeschooling, and as I continue to take care of my household duties as a wife and mother. What a blessing!

Today I purchased used office equipment from my most recent employer and it made me see how this is all coming together so well. I'll keep you posted as Busse Family Chiropractic develops.

first fruits

2011-01-13T17:46:00.000-05:00

Proverbs 3:9-10

Honor the LORD with your wealth,
with the firstfruits of all your crops;
then your barns will be filled to overflowing,
and your vats will brim over with new wine.

This post started simply with a photo I wanted to capture as I looked out my front door at my neighbor’s place about 45 minutes ago. I thought, “What a beautiful picture that will be. Let me run and get my camera and capture it.” My secondary thought was that I had to blog about it, of course, mainly to share the beauty I was witnessing.

The next step ... Upload it onto my computer so I can boost the color.

And further, the Lord reminded me of this scripture verse about “barns.” So I looked it up at Biblegateway and found the perfect one. I think God was showing me again that He provides for my every need.

Oh, how I praise Him.

I am amazed at God’s provision when I think about the decision we made many years ago to be obedient and tithe. We were of the mindset that we would not be able to pay all our bills if we gave “10%” or more. Oh my, would we have to get rid of cable? Would I have to stop buying scrap book supplies or that new sweater? The questions came quickly, but our obedience won out. God told my husband through a Promise Keepers convention that it was indeed time to do what He calls us to do in His Word. To give the first fruits of our labor.

After that Promise Keepers weekend, Shawn called me from work to share what the Holy Spirit was convicting him to do.I paused ... I was silent for a brief moment. My husband was quiet on the other end, giving me time to sort this out in my head. I said, “How?” Shawn’s reply, “I don’t know, but God does.” It only took a few seconds to reconcile the conversation that was taking place in my mind. My desire was to do God’s will with no further question.

On that very same day, and I am not exaggerating, my husband received 3 separate phone calls of new positions that he could choose from which resulted in a promotion and a higher salary. The increase totaled almost exactly 10%.

I praise Him.

My pastor often says, “God is not trying to take something from you. He is trying to give something to you.” How very true. He blesses us in relationships, in our marriages, with our children, and in our work.He gives us peace, joy, hope, unconditional love, and life. And if we receive Him as Lord and Savior, He gives us eternal life.

So what started out to be a simple photo of a winter scene turned out to be a reminder that I serve an awesome God who loves me with an everlasting love.

Wednesday Hodge Podge

2011-01-12T14:33:00.000-05:00

My friend, Joyce, over at From This Side of the Pond, hosts this weekly blog carnival. I love it because she does all the work for me and voila! I have a post. :) Thanks Joyce.

So here are the Hodgepodge questions that I get to answer...

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1. Every January 1st since 1976 Lake Superior University has published a list of words they'd like to see banished from the Queen's English. Words may be banished due to mis-use, over-use or just general uselessness and they receive over 1000 nominations. Here are the fourteen words/phrases they'd like to see banished in 2011-viral, epic, fail, wow factor, a-ha moment, back story, BFF, man up, refudiate, Mama Grizzlies, The American People, facebook/google when used as verbs, I'm just sayin', and Live life to the fullest.

What word or phrase would you like to see banished from our everyday vocabulary in 2011? You can choose one from the 'official list' or you can get creative and come up with your own.

"Really???" When I moved back from England last March, I started hearing people say, "Really?" after something they disliked, didn't want to hear, sarcastically questioned, or just got into the habit of saying. I think I've said it twice in the past 10 months because it annoys me to say it any more than that. I know people that say it in every conversation and even more than once. Really???

2. Do you consider opportunity something that comes to you or something you create for yourself?

I think it happens both ways for sure. There are times when I feel led to do something, so I make a plan and get it done. And then there are things that seem to just happen or fall into my lap and in either case, I thank God for the opportunity.

3. Since we're all eating healthy this month, ahem, what's included in your favorite salad? Is there dressing?

I love mandarins in my salad or dried cranberries. So yummy!

4. The fourth Monday in January is said to be Blue Monday...aka the most depressing day of the year. The date was calculated using many factors including weather, debt level, time since Christmas, time since we've failed at our new year resolutions, low motivation and feeling a need to take action. Do you get the blues this time of year and if so what is something you do to lift your spirits?

I don't feel like I get the blues around this time of year, but perhaps a little impatient while waiting for Spring to spring.

5. Do you wear a watch? Any other everyday jewelry essentials?
Yep, I love wearing a watch. I just got a chunky one from Premi*re Jewelry that I love. On the other wrist I wear beaded bracelets that my friend, Sarah, has blessed me with over the years. I always have earrings on and I do enjoy necklaces. Joyce, I'm not sure if you recall... but I posted pictures from a trip to Scotland where we did a lot of walking and hiking, and you commented on my bling. Yes, I was wearing a long necklace. See here. :-)

6. What is something useful you learned in high school?

To treat others the way I would want to be treated.

7. Do you use an accountant when completing and filing your income tax returns or do you attempt to muddle through all by yourself?
An accountant for sure. For now we have a team of accountants through my husband's company because of our recent expat assignment in England. From what I understand, it'll take a few years to get everything sorted properly.

8. Insert your own random thought here.
Instead of writing a post, it's done now though obviously, I should be ironing my son's shirt for tomorrow. Whenever he has a basketball game, he has to dress up and wear a shirt and tie to school. I should be grading my 7th grader's quizzes and tests from the past week, and I should be getting my exercise done. Oh, starting dinner would be nice as well. So off I go to get those things done...

My Beautiful 13 Year Old Girlie!

2011-01-08T22:31:00.004-05:00

Happy Birthday, Braaten!

Last year I did a birthday post with a ton of pictures when Braaten turned 12. And just so I can get a birthday post up on her actual birthday, I am repeating a few photos and adding one from today.

My little sweet was 4 months old here.

And I always get a kick out of this funny little picture. Check her out sitting there all relaxed with her foot on her knee. Ha! I love it!

She is a big 5 year old in this one. I love that big, beautiful smile.

And may I introduce you to Braaten Noelle as a teenager.

I love you, Braa, for your beautiful heart, your love for Jesus, your commitment to our family, the joy you have when you are with your friends, your silly, funny self, your help in our home, the laughter you bring, your lovely English accent, the style you have, how you want to remain pure for God, your love of music, how you enjoy watching movies and reading good books. I love your dimples, your long, thick, straight hair, how incredibly smart you are, how you love design whether it involves home or fashion, and how you always come up to me and kiss me on my cheek and say, "I love you, Mama."

You are one special girl and I love you more than my own life.

I pray wonderful, rich blessings on you in the coming year and always, Precious.

a smattering of things...

2011-01-02T19:10:00.005-05:00

I have a new look here at "Joy in the Journey". What do you think?
All of the credit goes to Tricia Nae Designs.
Thanks, Tricia, for all you did to make this exactly what I wanted.

Well, Christmas time was wonderful! Our family loves celebrating Christmas... from the decorating, to seeing everyone's outdoor lights, to visiting with friends and family, to baking a gazillion cookies and passing them out to neighbors, to singing at our Christmas Eve service, to buying fun things to give, to eating the yummiest of foods, and, most importantly to celebrate our Lord and Savior's birth.

We love all of it!

One thing my husband has done for years is take time off work between Christmas and New Year's. We cherish all of the hubby/daddy time we get with him. He loves taking the time to get things a bit more organized in our home, like the kids' closets, or the pantry, garage, etc. He's a doer and loves checking things off his own mental list. I love his mental list.

Yesterday we went to Indiana just for the day for the Busse family Christmas at his mom and dad's. All of his siblings and their families came and we ate, talked, played games, did a white elephant gift exchange, let the kids open their presents, and just enjoyed being together. It was peaceful, relaxing, and wonderful. There was lots of napping going on, and basketball playing in the hay mow.

Can you believe these are the only photos I took all day!

Today it was time to put all of the Christmas things away. Boy, do we have too much stuff! It accumulates over the years and people give you things, and it's just a lot. I love all of my little chochkies (how does one spell that word?), snowmen, santa's, and ornaments that the children have made.

This year my hubby made a star for me to put over the mantel. I showed him a picture and described what I wanted. I got the idea from this blog. So I went out shopping one day and while I was away he made the star. How romantic! He went outside, collected some branches, tied them together, and strung some lights around it. I just love it! Next year I will finish it with the sign that reads, "Star of Wonder, Star of Night."

This is the star, but pardon my inability to use my camera to its best capabilities. I am more than frustrated by not knowing how to use the thing. We've had it for years! I believe it was last year that I was supposed to take a photography class and get a clue. I think I'll have to settle for learning things on-line and through bloggers.

On a much more serious note, I was reading a blog that sends me an e-mail when a new post has come out. Out of the sheer convenience of being notified, I usually click on it and read the post. To my horror and sadness, I found out the Edie's, from Life in Grace, home burned down to the ground. Praise the Lord her entire family plus their two dogs were safe. But how tragic. She wrote a post about it and the emotions she is feeling. All I can say is that she has one of the strongest faiths I have ever encountered. And through her pain, I must reflect on my own life and walk, and growth in Him, my Savior.

She will be ok, but it's only because of Him.

Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones

2010-12-25T14:29:00.001-05:00

Rejoice! A King is born!

Merry Christmas from our family to yours.

Christmas Card Carousel

2010-12-20T15:41:00.001-05:00

Faith at "Walk with me by Faith" hosts this carnival each year and I love it. It gives me the opportunity to 'send' you a Christmas card through my blog and wish you the most blessed, and beautiful Christmas.

I love what my friend put on her Christmas card. It reads, "May Christ's love be at the top of your list." And that is my hope for each one of you.

If it wasn't for Jesus, there would be no Christmas.

Merry Christmas from our home to yours.

Abundant Blessings,

Winter Scenes In My Backyard

2010-12-17T11:00:00.000-05:00

I might not like driving in it, ....

but I sure like looking at it! i

Wednesday Hodgepodge

2010-12-15T10:38:00.000-05:00

Joyce over at "From This Side of the Pond" hosts this weekly meme of Wednesday Hodgepodge. She puts the questions out there some time on Tuesday so that we can link up on Wednesday. Hop on board and join her. If you've never checked out her blog, you are missing out!

1. What does it mean to have the 'holiday spirit'?
For me it's the whole package ... The Christmas tree is up with Christmas decorations throughout the house. I'm in the middle of shopping, I'm working on getting my Christmas cards out, going to cookie exchanges, the Christmas music is playing in the background and I am generally in a really good mood anticipating all that Christmas is. And in the midst of the busyness I am remembering that it's all about Jesus.

2. What sits atop your tree (s)? Why?

A sweet, little, white angel that my hubby and I purchased before we were married in anticipation of all the Christmases she would adorn our tree. She has a plain face, no eyes, nose, or mouth. She is made with white paper that has been curled at the ends and has a cute little head of brown hair with a bow made for wings. She brings us back to our very first Christmas together as a newly engaged couple. We both LOVE Christmas and the promise and hope that it brings.

3. When was the last time you gave yourself a pat on the back?

I think in the past few days. I am working at starting my own chiropractic practice here at our new home and God has been bringing people my way that are interested in coming to see me. I haven't really been talking about it and they are inquiring. That makes me feel good.

4. Which of your senses is most sensitive this time of year?

I love all of the smells of Christmas. The smell of pine is amazing and cooking with lots of cinnamon makes me happy. I love mulled cider because of the cinnamon and cloves that go in it that fill the air of our home with its aroma.

5. What do you have too much of in your kitchen?

Sugar! and ceramics. I have a sweet tooth and pottery makes me go weak in the knees.

I think my house is getting cluttered with pottery!

See? I told ya.

6. What do you do for meals on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day? Big meal? Breakfast tradition? Open the cookie tins and have at it?

Christmas happens to be the birthdate of our twins, Grant and Cooper. They'll be turning 9 in 9 days! We usually make whatever it is they request for breakfast and dinner. After about half the day, we switch gears to Christmas Eve and go to church. We take the kids for a drive to see all of the Christmas lights and decorations people have put up. When we get home, we open up one present which is new pajamas. If there's time, we'll watch a Christmas movie.

On Christmas morning, I make a ham and cheese strada for breakfast. We sing happy birthday to Jesus and have a cinnamon roll.

7. What is the best thing about winter?
Putting on cozy pajamas, slippers, and snuggling up by the fire.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

These days I'm feeling a bit better about blogging again. I'm trying to be more consistent in posting, but can do better still at reading blogs and commenting.

Abundant Blessings!

Cherry Chocolate Shortbread Cookies

2010-12-11T13:56:00.001-05:00

Cherry Chocolate Shortbread Cookies:
Prep Time: 20 minutes ~~ Bake Time: 20 - 30 min ~~ Yield: 3 1/2 Dozen Cookies

1 cup butter, softened (no substitute)
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 tsp. almond extract (I used orange extract)
2 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 cup cornstarch
1/2 cup finely chopped dried cherries
1/4 cup chocolate chip morsels
1 T. sugar

Drizzle:
1/4 cup chocolate chip morsels
1 tsp shortening

Mix butter, sugar and almond extract thoroughly using an electric mixer. Gradually blend in flour and corn starch. Add cherries and chocolate..

Form into 1-inch balls and place on ungreased baking sheets. Pour sugar on a small plate; dip bottom of drinking glass in sugar and gently press down on each cookie to flatten. (You have to use the sugar or it will stick).

Bake in a preheated 300 degree oven for 20 to 30 minutes, or until bottoms begin to brown.

Cool 5 minutes; remove to a wire rack to cook completely.

Drizzle: Place 1/4 cup morsels and shortening in a small resealable freezer bag. Microwave on high for 30 seconds, until chocolate is melted. Snip off tiny piece of corner and drizzle over cookies.

Enjoy!

Ramblings

2010-12-10T11:54:00.000-05:00

We had this photo taken on Thanksgiving day. Jill and Sarah collaborated their efforts (one held the umbrella and the other one shot!) and got this for our Christmas card.

It's in front of our new home. I realized just the other day that I have not, in fact, posted many pictures of it on my blog. So.... when I have the time, and that's few and far between lately, I shall post pictures of the Busse Homestead. Sound good?

Today I am baking cookies for a cookie exchange that I was invited to. Because there will be 21 other ladies there, I have to bake 88 cookies plus 8 more to put out on a plate for sampling. My cookie choice is:

Cherry Chocolate Shortbread Cookies

I'm not a HUGE fan of shortbread, but these are yummy!

If you'd like the recipe, I'll post it with a photo of the cookie tomorrow.

On Saturday night we'll go to our church's Saturday night service where we serve in the ministry for 6th, 7th, and 8th graders. It's called Next Level and is the "Sunday School" for those grade levels. We are really enjoying working with the kids. There was a time when Shawn and I lead A.W.A.N.A for 5 years, and now the Lord has us in Next Level. I think you move to different ministries as your kids grow. That's the case for us anyway. And the beauty of not leading A.W.A.N.A. anymore is that we now go on a date while our younger 3 are there and the older 2 are serving as leaders in training. God's provision is perfect!

Grant and Cooper, our 8 year old Christmas Eve twins, have a birthday to celebrate soon. Because their birthday falls on that date, we usually plan their birthday party on a different day. So this Sunday they'll get to have 7 of their friends over for a few hours in celebration of them turning 9. They are so excited! It looks like we might have snow and the hubs will be entertaining 9 young gentlemen perhaps on the quad around our property. Grant has requested a coconut cake for his birthday and Cooper would like white cake with white frosting. And, yes, I do make 2 cakes because they are individuals after all.

What do you have planned for the weekend?

Blessings to you,

Wednesday Hodge Podge

2010-12-01T19:33:00.000-05:00

Joyce over at "From This Side of the Pond" is hosting this fun, weekly blog carnival. Go over and see her and join in on the fun.

1. What is the most interesting thing you've done in the last year?

Oh let's see. I moved from England back to Michigan in March. That is a tremendous feat and I feel, in some ways, that I am still reeling from the move. I think that coupled with the ginormous move, putting our firstborn into high school after homeschooling him for 7 years was HUGE. So, I guess between those two things it was a pretty big year.

2. What is your most meaningful family heirloom?

I don't really have any heirlooms. My mom was not one to hold onto things. I guess one of things that I cherish that I will hold on to and pass down is one of the last dollars that my father made while driving a taxi in N.J. It's in my wallet tucked away and each time I take a peek at it, it reminds me of the hard, dedicated worker he always was.

3. What food festival would you most like to attend? If you're not sure click here to see a list of possibilities.
The Alba White Truffle one. That's the one that sounds the best to me. And, like Joyce, I love Italy, too.

4. Snow...do you love it or is it considered a four letter word where you live?
I love the look of snow, the joy that it brings to my kids, and the fun I can have in it, BUT I don't enjoy driving in it! That pretty much sums it up.

5. Can you ski? Do you ski? Are you any good?
Me no like to ski. I'm a big chicken.

6. What quality in your spouse or best friend are you most thankful for?
His dependability. He has been there for me since day one for anything and everything. I adore him.

7. Describe the coziest spot in your home.
The coziest place in our home is the living room. I like cuddling there to watch a good t.v. show or a movie together as a family.

8. Insert your own random thought here.
Life is so busy these days. It seems that when I lived in England I found the time and inspiration to blog. Since I moved back, I just don't have it in me to write a post on any regular basis and it bums me out. I miss those of you that I use to visit all the time. When I finally get around to putting a post up it gives me joy and puts a smile on my face. That's my random thought for today.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2010-11-25T08:59:00.000-05:00

I wish abundant blessings to you this Thanksgiving day.

Last year at this time we celebrated Thanksgiving in England as a family.

Though it is not a holiday celebrated in the U.K., we insisted on pulling out all the stops and celebrating it the way we always have.

We are blessed to be back here in the states to celebrate officially once again, but we sure miss our time there with the friends God blessed us with.

May each one of you and your families have an amazing Thanksgiving.

This subway art was created at Craftily Ever After by Jessica. Thank you for creating and sharing it.

birthday fun

2010-11-23T11:51:00.000-05:00

My girlfriends and I like to celebrate each other's birthdays.
We usually go out to dinner and then lavish the birthday girl with gifts.

The coined term for our gifts to each other are called
"Auntie Bags".
An Auntie Bag consists of all kinds of goodies. The goodies can range from fun socks, to a photo frame with a special friend photo, to a sweater, or a favorite treat. I usually try to include all of those things or a variety of other things.
Sarah introduced us to the Auntie Bag. Her aunts, on her mom's side, always gave them a plethora of gifts inside of one bag and it was fun to see the combination they came up with.
When Sarah first told me of this tradition, we quickly adopted it. I think one of my love languages is gifts: both giving and receiving. :-)

Lizzy is the birthday girl this time and we were all headed to Red Robin for a nice, juicy burger. On your birthday, they give you a free burger of your choice. On that particular night we had 2 extra coupons for $3.00 off and our waitress ended up giving us 3 free burgers. We kept trying to make her understand that we were only celebrating one birthday, but she insisted on the 3. So we enjoyed the blessing she gave us.

Isn't Liz's headpiece cute? It happens to be a little gift that I received for my birthday. I thought it only fair that our new tradition would be to re-gift it to the next birthday girl who will then have to wear it in public for at least 5 minutes.

I think Liz Longstocking wears it well, don't you?

Mike really wanted to be a part of his wife's birthday celebration, so now the husbands come along and we like that just fine!

Oh yum!

My man is quite the looker!

When we got home, we enjoyed Emma Lynn with her ever-joyful presence.

All of the kids can't get enough of holding her and making her giggle.

Here's our group minus the hubby's.

We had fun playing on the Wii and then had cake.

Nighty-night Emma.

We recently celebrated Sydney's birthday. That's coming up in a future post.